There are lots of things men, unintentionally do, that would tarnish their relationship with a woman. I wrote an article on 25 Things You Should Never EVER Say To A Woman (And 7 Things You Should Always Say), and i think it’s worth reading.
Avoid using certain words or sentence, it does not matter if it is your wife of five years or a chick you just met at a bar, $ex is an incredibly intimate experience, and it’s a special moment for the woman.
So when you’re in the bedroom (or elsewhere), I want to point it out here, that it is very important to avoid making unnecessary commentary that could ruin the mood, or worse— make her not want to sleep with you ever again.
From discussing your seΧual repertoire to assessing her hmmm Οℜgasm, here are five subjects to stay away from during $ex.
Well, this is one of the surest thing that is bound to break your relationship with her. Always remember in grade school when you were taught to give “constructive criticism?”
You should probably know this, that is, Constructive criticism does not work with Women. it’s a life fact. This does not apply to your lady in the bedroom. “It’s not very seΧy or encouraging to be told our skills are subpar in the heat of the moment,” says Amy Levine, $ex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure disclosed.
“If you want to change the way your girlfriend or S.O do things in the bedroom, you should always frame it in the positive by talking about what you do like.
You should probably avoid making statements like: “What are you doing?”
2. “My ex used to love it when I…”
Hello sire, you are not dating your ex, but your current girlfriend. Guys should stop making the mistake of the century, by comparing or bringing in, their ex girlfriend’s behaviour, likes and dislikes in special moments.
All women are different, so don’t lean heavily on past experiences—and definitely don’t discuss it with your girlfriend. Importantly, “who’s to say that the previous women didn’t fake their pleasure just to get you to finish quicker?” Levine says. ZING! Aside from that, §exologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also took out time to explain and points out that “talking about your prior §εxual encounters can drive a woman completely crazy—and not in a good way. She doesn’t need to hear about it, and if you do intentional or unintentionally bring it up, she’ll feel threatened and jealous. For a lot of women, that’s a deal-breaker.”
One of the most un$exiest statements goes like this, let’s try this position, which i once with my ex”
3. “I have to be out of here by 4:00.”
Stop using and making statements like “I need to wake up super early tomorrow”, you are indirectly telling the lady, that she’s not on your priority list.
Men should learn how to stop making allusions, to the idea that you don’t have much time when in bed with their girlfriend or wife. This is one big major mood-killer.
“If you absolutely must talk about somewhere that you need to be, or the fact that you’re in a rush, at least wait until afterward, not before or during the stuff, you are actually killing the mood!”
4. “I wish you had more a$$ to grab!”
This is one word i will advice all my male friends never to use on a Woman. You want to know why? Here’s the answer.
Women are most times, extremely insecure, especially when they’re naked and most vulnerable.
So for you to go round, and start pointing out things about other women’s bodies that you like, particularly ones that highlight what your partner doesn’t have, is a major no and mood killer,” says Levine. Also agreeing with this point is Brame, who adds: “Anything that’s going to make a woman self-conscious is a female-libido kill. She’ll shut down immediately.”
5. “Did you come yet?”
This is one thing guys should always try to avoid. Guys should stop questioning their Girlfriends,partner or wife on issues like this. Please stop asking if she came or saying that you want to see her come. That puts way too much pressure on her.”
Andelloux disclosed that if your girlfriend did cliΜax, she can choose to say something or not, but it’s important to remember that for a woman, having an οℜgasm does not equal having a good time in bed. “It can be lovely…but it should not be the goal of the moment.”
You should probably be more interested in knowing she have a good time with you.
Avoid using certain words or sentence, it does not matter if it is your wife of five years or a chick you just met at a bar, $ex is an incredibly intimate experience, and it’s a special moment for the woman.
So when you’re in the bedroom (or elsewhere), I want to point it out here, that it is very important to avoid making unnecessary commentary that could ruin the mood, or worse— make her not want to sleep with you ever again.
From discussing your seΧual repertoire to assessing her hmmm Οℜgasm, here are five subjects to stay away from during $ex.
5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO A WOMAN IN BED
1. “Not like that.”Well, this is one of the surest thing that is bound to break your relationship with her. Always remember in grade school when you were taught to give “constructive criticism?”
You should probably know this, that is, Constructive criticism does not work with Women. it’s a life fact. This does not apply to your lady in the bedroom. “It’s not very seΧy or encouraging to be told our skills are subpar in the heat of the moment,” says Amy Levine, $ex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure disclosed.
“If you want to change the way your girlfriend or S.O do things in the bedroom, you should always frame it in the positive by talking about what you do like.
You should probably avoid making statements like: “What are you doing?”
2. “My ex used to love it when I…”
Hello sire, you are not dating your ex, but your current girlfriend. Guys should stop making the mistake of the century, by comparing or bringing in, their ex girlfriend’s behaviour, likes and dislikes in special moments.
All women are different, so don’t lean heavily on past experiences—and definitely don’t discuss it with your girlfriend. Importantly, “who’s to say that the previous women didn’t fake their pleasure just to get you to finish quicker?” Levine says. ZING! Aside from that, §exologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also took out time to explain and points out that “talking about your prior §εxual encounters can drive a woman completely crazy—and not in a good way. She doesn’t need to hear about it, and if you do intentional or unintentionally bring it up, she’ll feel threatened and jealous. For a lot of women, that’s a deal-breaker.”
One of the most un$exiest statements goes like this, let’s try this position, which i once with my ex”
3. “I have to be out of here by 4:00.”
Stop using and making statements like “I need to wake up super early tomorrow”, you are indirectly telling the lady, that she’s not on your priority list.
Men should learn how to stop making allusions, to the idea that you don’t have much time when in bed with their girlfriend or wife. This is one big major mood-killer.
“If you absolutely must talk about somewhere that you need to be, or the fact that you’re in a rush, at least wait until afterward, not before or during the stuff, you are actually killing the mood!”
4. “I wish you had more a$$ to grab!”
This is one word i will advice all my male friends never to use on a Woman. You want to know why? Here’s the answer.
Women are most times, extremely insecure, especially when they’re naked and most vulnerable.
So for you to go round, and start pointing out things about other women’s bodies that you like, particularly ones that highlight what your partner doesn’t have, is a major no and mood killer,” says Levine. Also agreeing with this point is Brame, who adds: “Anything that’s going to make a woman self-conscious is a female-libido kill. She’ll shut down immediately.”
5. “Did you come yet?”
This is one thing guys should always try to avoid. Guys should stop questioning their Girlfriends,partner or wife on issues like this. Please stop asking if she came or saying that you want to see her come. That puts way too much pressure on her.”
Andelloux disclosed that if your girlfriend did cliΜax, she can choose to say something or not, but it’s important to remember that for a woman, having an οℜgasm does not equal having a good time in bed. “It can be lovely…but it should not be the goal of the moment.”
You should probably be more interested in knowing she have a good time with you.
